So on the one hand you get soppy at frozen and ravenous strays, but on the other, you don’t mind if they were killed. You’re really a tough girl. But it has nothing to do with ambivalence in my opinion.
It’s just doubletalk ,something like “ you know, I really wish you well but better just f**k away. I ‘m sorry if my judgement is too far-reaching but couldn’t reserve it. I’m entitled to my opinion after all, am I not ? :)
P.S. Many strays are more intelligent than some visitors of this forum just because they can perfectly cope with difficulties in “their present” natural environment. They are predators by nature and even if you don’t feed them they will surely find or hunt something to survive. May be even another “suicidal rat” or whatever. And even if they “commit suicide” when they ‘re run over, they don’t do it consciously as opposed to some humans.