zastanawiam sie nad poprawnym pytanie "czy to ty" uzywam zazwyczaj is it you? i nikt mnie nie poprawial,, ale szczerze mowiac mam mieszane uczucia co do tego zwrotu..
'that' is a demonstrative. You hear something and you ask 'is that you?', 'that' meaning 'that murmur', 'that sound', etc.
That's my rationale for saying so in this situation.