I understand why other people get married, but I just express my opinion, that I, personally don;t want to do that.
I'm not this sort of person who enjoys celebrations and big words, so I'm not planning to say any vows in front of public, as I feel it's sth intimate. Another thing is, that I;m sort of anarchist (no matter how funny it may seem to you;)) so the natural consequence is that I have developed a hatred towards all institutions (but for school;), I know, I know gaps in my logics) and I have no intention of promising to love my man in front of some clerk representing the Polish, or any other state;) (you know, police state, blah, blah, blah;)
The next thing is, that as a realist, I'm fully aware that marriage won't keep my husmband with me, or me with my husband, if one of us decides to break the relationship, so such a contract gives a faulse sense of security.
Finally, as a pessimist, I realize that nothing lasts for ever. I can never be sure when my relationship ends, (although for the time being I'm not planning to finish it), but polygamy is typical and natural for people, so assuming it's not gonna be my last marraige, i see no point in going thru all of that;)
I once more repeat, it's my, personal view on marriage, and i don't question this institution for others.
Rgds,
KOciamama.