It's wrong to tell a lie..... rozprawka

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It's wrong to tell a lie...

Statistics shows that an average person lie about 3 times during 10 minutes of a conversation. Nowadays it's a big problem. In our life we have to usually stand in front of a difficult decision: tell the truth or a lie? It's not easy to choose, but we should think about the consequences connected with our choice. We should always consider all arguments and objections which will make it easier to say appropriate words in a complicated situation. A folk phrases have a lot of wisdom and one of them said 'A lie has short legs'. But is the whole truth better than a small lie? I'll try to decide when a lie might be well-founded and when we should be totally honest.
Fist of all a lie can be admissible if we don't want to hurt somebody. There are some situations in everyday life when we can't forget that there are other people around us and our words are important for them. It's hard to say our bestfriend that 'she looks not very well in that dress', while she is happy and thinks that it is the best purchase which she have ever done. It's comfortable for us to say yes, because then everybody will be satisfied.
What is more, a lie shouldn't be damned if we want protect yourself or somebody else. Especially we aren't honest when we want to avoid punishment. It is a result of our nature. Nobody want to be responsible for the bad things particularly when the resulst are not well. When we have a good intensions we think that our lie is positive and we act in a legitimate interest. People have a very strong sense to protect others especially when we stay in a close relationship.
Thirdly, a lie can be accepted if it concern a trinket. Sometimes we really didn't notice that we don't tell the truth. For us it won't have a big influent. When we hear popular 'Who did that?' We prefer to say: 'I don't know.' or 'Not me.', because then we don't have to retranslate what happened and start the whole story from the beginning.
On the other hand we said that: 'The worst truth is better from a beautiful lie'. When it turn out that we have lied we can have a serious problem. It can have a bad effects in our work place or a private life. Beeing a liar is not supported and it can caused that people won't trust us anymore. It's not easy to regain somebody's confidence.
To sum up, I can understand people who lie. I think that there are a lot of situations when it might be asmissible. I can't imagine the world where everybody stop lying and immediately say the whole truth. Lying is connected with our human nature and change fibs make our life easier. Truth is also an important thing. Our relationships and any contact with other people should relay on sincerity. There is an one simple principe. If we require truth from anybody we should be honest at first.

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'Statistics shows' (tutaj masz zle, 'statistics' to l. mn. a 'shows' to 3os.l.poj) that an average person 'lie' (tutaj he/she....) about 3 times during '10 minutes of a conversation' tutaj nie jest jasne, czy w 10 min po rozpoczeciu rozmowy, czy 3 razy na kazde 10 min).
Nowadays it's a 'big' (poszukaj lepsze slowo) problem. In our life we have 'to' ('to' jest w zlym miejscu, split infinitive) usually stand in front of a difficult decision: (brak cos) tell the truth or 'a' (niepotr) lie?
We should always consider all arguments and objections which will make it easier to say (brak przedimka) appropriate words in a complicated situation. A 'folk phrases' (to jest zle-poszukaj jak ma byc) have a lot of wisdom and one of them 'said' (to jest zle slowo tutaj, daj 'states') 'A lie has short legs'.
I'll try to 'decide' (poszukaj inne slowo) when a lie might be well-founded and when we should be totally honest.
'Fist' (ortog) of all a lie can be admissible if we don't want to hurt somebody.
It's hard to say (tu cos brak) our best friend that 'she 'looks not very well' (nie, to maslo maslane, daj...does not look well) in that dress', while she is happy and thinks that it is the best purchase 'which' (that) she 'have' (zle, she to 3os.l.poj popraw) ever done. It's comfortable for us to say yes, because then everybody will be 'satisfied' (napisz 'happy').
What is more, a lie shouldn't be damned if we want (cos brak) protect 'yourself' (nie, bo jak mowisz 'we' to musisz 'ourselves') or somebody else. Especially (tu cos brak) we 'aren't' (popraw) honest when we want to avoid punishment. 'It' (nie wiem do czego to 'it' sie odnosi) is a result of our nature. Nobody 'want' (tutaj 'nobody' to l. poj) to be responsible for the bad things particularly when the 'resulst' (ortog) are not 'well' GOOD (mieszasz, 'well, i 'good' ). When we have 'a' (nie dajemy 'a' przed l. mn-intentions) good intensions we think that our lie is positive and we act in a legitimate interest. People have a very strong sense 'to protect' (of protecting) others especially when we stay in a close relationship.
Thirdly, a lie can be accepted if it 'concern' (alew 'it' to jest 3os.l.poj, czasownik musi byc dostosowany) a trinket. Sometimes we really didn't notice that we 'don't tell' (tutaj ..haven't told) the truth. For us it 'won't' (doesn't) have a big 'influent' (to jest zle slowo, poszukaj poprawne). When we (daj tutaj cos) hear 'popular' (niepotr) 'Who did that?' We prefer to say: 'I don't know.' or 'Not me.', because then we don't have to 'retranslate' (zle slowo) what happened and start the whole story from the beginning.
On the other hand we 'said' (zly czas) that: 'The worst truth is better 'from' THAN a beautiful lie'. When it 'turn' (zale przeciez 'iut' to 3os.l.poj - cos tego jeszcze nie pokonalas) out that we have lied we can have a serious problem. It can have a bad 'effects' (dlaczego dajesz l. mn 'effects' jak dalas 'it'?) in our work place or 'a' (niepotr) private life. Beeing a liar is not 'supported' (zle slowo, popraw) and it can 'caused' (zle slowo, mieszasz 'cause' i 'result') that people won't trust us anymore.
I think that there are a lot of situations when it might be 'asmissible' (ortog). I can't imagine the world where everybody 'stop' STOPS lying and immediately 'say' TELL the whole truth. Lying is connected with our human nature and 'change fibs' (tego nie rozumiem) make our life easier.
Our relationships and any contact with other people should 'relay' (to jest zle slowo) on sincerity. There is 'an' (niepotr) one simple 'principe' (ortog). If we require (cos brak) truth from anybody we should be honest at first.

"will make it easier to say appropriate words" coś mi tu nie pasuje, albo czegoś za dużo albo za mało, w zależności czy użyjesz "it" czy nie
"It's hard to say our bestfriend"
" not very well in that dress"- może ktoś to skoryguje ale dla mnie dziwnie brzmi "in dress" wolę wearing dress
"we want [...] protect yourself "
"People have a very strong sense to protect others" - sense of sth
"it concern[..]"
"Sometimes we really didn't notice that we don't tell the truth"
"For us it won't have a big influent" zrób z tego rzeczownik, tylko co to ma znaczyć ? może "difference",
"we don't have to retranslate what happened" - złe słowo,
"On the other hand we said that" say
"When it turn[..] out"
"Beeing a liar is not supported and it can caused that people " - 1. do zmiany, 2. do korekty,
"change fibs" ??
"any contact[..]"
"There is an one simple principe" - albo an albo one



"Nobody want "
"the resulst are not well" - 'well' mi tu nie pasi,
"When we have a good intensions"

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